The 5 Biggest Myths About Boudoir
After their sessions, my clients always express to me, “that wasn’t what I thought it would be like.” Boudoir sessions are transformative experiences that will fill you with a love for yourself you didn’t know existed. They’re not just a photoshoot with you wearing lingerie. Yes, you’ll walk away with tons of sexy photos of yourself, but you’ll also walk away with a new sense of empowerment that you likely can’t get anywhere else. There are so many myths circulating about what a boudoir shoot is and what you will gain from it, so I’m here to debunk those rumors by uncovering the five biggest myths about boudoir photography.
You need to look like a model.
This is by far the myth I hear the most. Women think that in order to look good in their photos they need to be nipped and tucked, lose 20 pounds and shave 10 years off of their lives. Ladies, you can skip the Botox and the gym! Every woman leaves my studio feeling amazing in the skin they are in, regardless of whether or not they felt that way walking in. Your body is perfect right NOW and I’ll showcase it in the best light possible. Your day will start with professional hair and makeup, I’ll guide you through posing, and use my professional lighting and editing to ensure you walk away with beautiful photos. You don’t need to look like a model, but you sure will feel like one when you leave!
You have to wear lingerie.
FALSE. There are so many options when it comes to the wardrobe for your session. A lot of women opt for a spouse’s shirt or a pair of jeans. Some women wear leather jackets and thigh high boots. Whether or not you want to showcase every last part of you is entirely up to you! And don’t worry if you don’t usually wear lingerie. If you opt for that look, I can help you narrow down your choices, so you will feel comfortable and confident and look drop dead gorgeous.
The photos are only for brides-to-be.
A lot of women do book a session to gift their fiancés on the day of their wedding, but that’s not the only reason women book a boudoir session with me. Many of my clients are celebrating other milestones or rebuilding their lives. My clients come to me as their lives are peaking, but also in times of despair. Some of my clients come because they are looking to step outside of their comfort zones and learn to appreciate themselves in a way they haven’t before. You don’t need a reason to book a session with me, but if you are looking to feel beautiful, valued, and cared for, look no further!
Your pictures will be posted all over the internet.
Absolutely FALSE. So many women are worried that once they have a session with me, private images of them will surface on the internet. This could not be further from the truth. The women you see posted on my website signed releases for me to use their photos, and I would never post a photo of a woman who didn’t want these images to be public. While I love when women give me their consent to use their photos, you are in no way obligated to!
Boudoir photography is expensive.
Your boudoir session is an investment in yourself, and you can find a photographer for any budget. My studio offers a luxury experience that includes a whole lot more than a studio fee and some digital images. Included in your session is a wardrobe consultation, full hair and makeup, posing advice, and professional lighting and editing. You are also able to purchase your photos as artwork to hang with pride in your home! Remember, when looking for a photographer, don’t just look at the pricing. Look at their social media and their websites. You want to make sure you are picking a photographer that is experienced in their craft and will be a great fit for a day that can be life changing.
There are so many myths out there about boudoir photography, but the truth is that a session with me will change the way you look at yourself and your life. Book a session with me today!